Flag on the Play: My Toddler Is an Ineligible Receiver

When my son, James was two years old, and I heard the jazzy music of an erectile dysfunction commercial start playing, I wanted to throw a penalty flag. Even at two, James could understand context, and could deduce inferences. I was afraid he’d ask me about the couple in the bathtubs — the ads where the two lovebirds were having a good soak in the middle of a green pasture. The bemusement would have been understandable — how do two cast iron bathtubs get to such remote places? Where does the clean water come from? Do you have to be an exhibitionist to take these drugs?

Click here to read the rest of the essay in The Huffington Post.

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In Praise of the Essay

I guest-blogged for Brevity about Welcome Table Press’ upcoming symposium, “In Praise of the Essay: Practice and Form” at Fordham University, on October 15, featuring honoree, Phillip Lopate. To read my post click here. To skip the post and just download the registration form for this exciting event click here.

Photo taken by Heather Simmons, at Fordham during last year’s symposium.

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Building Blocks, Or, What Our Three-Year-Old’s Broken Heart Taught Us About Parenting Him

On his first day of nursery school, the teacher said our son, James, paced back and forth along the fence of the playground, saying to himself, “This is a disaster. This is a disaster.” My wife, Lynne, and I needed to help him adjust, but how? The teacher gave us something positive to hold on to each week, and months later, we were happy to learn that James “married” Jane. According to the teacher, they married in the tree house on the playground, where they held hands and swayed. The boy could count on having a new friend at his new school.

That day, when James came home, he built a tower of blocks. He stood before the blocks, clapped his hands and said it was as tall as him. He’s learning how to make friends, Lynne and I thought. But the following week, James sat on the living room floor turning a block over and over in his hands, and asked, “Why doesn’t she want to talk to me anymore?” The situation gave us the opportunity to give him something more important to his self-image than an answer to his question.

Click here to read the rest of the essay in The Huffington Post.

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Night Running

My essay, “Night Running” appears in the spring issue of Connecticut Review. Here is an excerpt:

“After a few blocks down the avenue, I turn left and ascend the street that separates the first two holes from the remaining front nine of a country club’s prized old New England golf course. I like to run under these tall oak trees. Their wide trunks bifurcate into branches of swaying leaves. I like to run on the uneven blacktop sidewalk. I know this path. I can anticipate dips and cracks underfoot. Headlights cast my silhouette on the bark of trees, lining the fairway like columns. The profile runs on tree after tree. I’d like to think I can catch the shadow of myself at the top of the hill where the sky opens up to a full silver moon, but when I am there, my shadow is gone. Airplane lights flash red, avoiding each other in the black air traffic.”

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